Men and Women Don't Think Alike But Let's Be Fair !

There's a famous saying that men are from mars and women are from venus. is merely a superficial conclusion when keeping in mind all the differences and yet the similarities that exist between a man and a woman. Though men and women never get along well they are meant to be together . This is where the blame game starts. Trying to decode each others mind in the same time makes things more complicated .


Well, what makes me write this is coz of my good sweet loving friends rohan and viks who were having this conversation over dinner on how complicated gurls are to be impressed. Truly speaking gurls are very simple only if you know to look beyond the complications. Its about how you break the barrier. Now lets see whats going on in his mind .Their way to deal with us ie women is to basically agree to a lot of comments and critique we make. And then they apologize to make things better.
We never really unfold their minds to see what is really inside them, and what makes them the way they are.  On the outside a lot of men seem to be very self confident, macho man carry themselves like gentlemen, demonstrate their etiquette and good manners. On the inside, they are just like everyone else, have concerns and sensitive issues. They have fears and desires, that sometimes they can not share with us because they
feel that , by opening up they may be jeopardizing their manhood. Thus, the man who holds a lot of things inside eventually becomes resentful and closed up. We always think whats going on his head now but at times guys just don't think anything at all.. its just too blank..yea the typical stereotype guy acts really cool outside but definately doesn't like it from heart.. yeah gurls do have to understand that guys just look out for fun.. what would be a guys dream? Earn big, Go to Vegas have a bash with friends. the best part is they act very intelligent and try cooking up some story and end up being caught red handed..lolz.. they just don't know to lie or hide. And not to mention their love for numbers.. they have a wonderful memory when it comes to scorecards.But i would call it selective memory coz they never good with anniversaary dates, birthday dates. They just love to be a master of all and love trying some adventure such as household work trying to show that they are helpful or they can live independently but they do messing things up more. They are very smart in explaining that there is a small line between looking and ogling which is never accpeted. They are not consistent as we think, they are super cool and funtoss to some situations when it's not their girl friend. Now the Girlfriend comes up with an issue there he goes proving how philosophical he is about life and how over caring he is towards her..! thats the typical guy possessiveness which just pops out of his big head filled with so many questions which he wanted to talk out but never did and there he gets the best option to outburst.On the whole men are supposedly responsible, smart and intelligent.
Now going to the other side of the so called complicated heads with lot of twist and turns, the love of every men – The Women. n important aspect that one has to keep in mind when trying to understand women is that a woman passes through many different stages in her life. She plays many different roles; she is a mother, a sister, a wife, a friend and a human .They are just this typical jaba jaba talkative with very long tongues who loves gossips. It's very easy to open up their minds, just a lil homework on how to gain trust and being sweet can do it. But not to mention that there are always exceptions where some serious homework is needed if you really intend to break into their heads. Another bunch of girls who just love guys being themselves and not trying to be others just for the fact to impress the girl. Most of women feel very strongly about their opinions and general overview of what life and other people behavior should be. And, most of the time they may be right, since women are given that amazing sense of intuition and righteousness.  And not to mention their love for the silly kiddish games and making people guess in the name of surprise. They also twist the entire scenario just to make the guy think complicated. They love to be pampered, consoled, loved and admired. Well satisfying a girl is like trying to count the stars in the sky. And to talk about the memory, they have such love for numbers that they are right always and remember even the slightest and the smallest information. Guys hate this part of the women brain just coz they remember whats spoken 6 to 8 months ago and the feel its inadmissible for them to pull that into the last conversation.A woman wants the men to change for her and adapt her ways; so she should at least consider his requests and thoughts. The women can make the changes, and adjust to his means for the sake of her relationship.  Unlike men, we are very receptive and adoptable to changes! Best way to console a girl when she is upset is just take her out for shopping, then later on would end up being upset for taking them out. They are such a shopoholics. They would just get the whole lot just for one reason wow it looks so cute..! woww watte color..! i dun have this design..! wat da hell its so so cheap just buy as much as you can..!90% of men would probably pay a fortune to enter in their lover’s mind and discover all her deepest secrets. What all women want in their lives though is just a sense of belonging and security. Every woman looks out for safety in her life; she wants to feel safe and independent yet she does feel the necessity to be challenged and contradicted at times too.In the mind of a woman, runs a river of words, of emotions, of sorrows, and at times a river of happiness. For all of you out there, get yourself prepared because in her mind, there is absolutely no black or white!

But we have to accept that reality is different, once we learn to live with it then things are less complicated. So just don't think too much.. ;-)

Feeling Cloud 9 ?

Happy? hyper? excited? do all these relate to cloud 9? or do u believe in cloud 9? Personally, yes i do.. very much in fact.. We never understand that happiness is just an attitude.It's just up to us for living it happy. We either make ourself feel miserable and pathetic or happy and strong.
First time in life am feeling much better than ever. Life is going good with hectic schedules yet should say great. Feeling lucky enough to get some good positive emotions everyday(touch wood).Somehow i catch myself to the point that i'm smiling more these days, not sure what the reason is again. But the feels good just to be back to myself after a couple of months of frustration. Being myself the way i want, the way i am feels really great .We always complain  about life but we never realize that we would be much happier if start to look beyond the imperfections. It's just about living life pinky and happy. You got the right to be happy. You just have to be. If you are, everything will fall in place. So just pull in yourself and FEEL GOOD! FEEL HAPPY! Yeppie I'm on cloud 9.. lolz.. keep smiling :)

What's a Perfect Dream Relationship

Have you ever wondered how most of us dream about the same things? We might be different. We might argue a lot. We might fight and try to prove our point of view. But in the end of the day when we  go to bed and are one on one with our thoughts and dreams and desires we want the only one thing - admit it or deny it - we want to be loved. And we want to be happy. And somehow one does not go without another. 

All of us dream of this someone who is perfect..we always feel that the other person's life is more happier and fun than yours.. n We take time to trust someone unconditionally. it's  about meeting  that one person who can read their mind, answer their questions before these questions are actually being asked. it's about meeting that person who can bring excitement, happiness, joy in their life. it's about meeting that special someone who can literally take their breath away just by being there. We have not. But we know we will. We hope, we dream and while we are lonely at this very moment we know very well that it is not going this way forever. Or so we hope.

What do we love to dream.. a dream just to make us  realize  how lucky they are to have something that beautiful in their life. Having someone who can make an ordinary moment seem magical; who can bring out the best in them and make them want to be a better person. Having someone who is their best friend; the person who will drop everything to be with them at any time of the day no matter what the circumstances, when it is needed. Having someone who can make them  smile like no one else can. the fact that a good relationship doesn’t just happen. Couples who stay together for years aren’t just lucky. It requires both people to actively care for and work on the relationship.

1. Accept the shortcomings.

2. Admit you are wrong

3. Always talk about your problems

4. Do not take everything personally

5. Be independently happy

6. Do not let anyone affect your relationship

7. Give them time and space

8. Show them they are your priority

9. Be loyal, be truthful, be committed

10.

Say “I love you”

My flashy colored friend.. ;)

there was a gurl who was more of a guy..! yeah the tomboy of our group i wud say.. very stylish in her own style.. flashy colors painted nails.. red haired.. someone who loves music n photography.. was a very silent gurll.. n fact the only gurl who never used to look @ guys.. may be she never used to talk much about them..the most closedmouth gurl opened up in the land of the most populous British city "Birmingham". i would call her the chic gurl.. well not jus modern by looks but also by thought.. ! can say we became close off late..thanks to skype ;-) but she is someone who doesnt really open up that fast.. ! she is a perfect organizer..very calm n patient..u can pull her leg bigtime n all that she would say is" unga kudi bodhai ku na side dish ??? please pa dun damage so much"lolz.. n yeahh recently found n lotta parties.. loves to hangout with frends.. someone who is jus fills the place with happiness and fun would be her..n this s jus too small to explain about the gurl who tries colorful stuffs .. cheers liny.. 

My sissy friend

hmm... What do i say abt the sissy frend..my childhood friend.. met her first in dainty dolls our pre- school then again in school..we became really close n the 8th grade.. then used to go for math n french classes together.. then as time passed things started to change.. she turned out to be my wonderful sissy friend who always shows the right path.. well we used to be almost 24x7 together.. used to hangout in bb.. then have some small chats which turns out to be hours.. then we reach home again start our gossips.. lolz.. used to play a lot of pranks.. n she s someone whom i treasure a lot.. she is also one among those few who can figure out wat am up to.. the first gurl n our group to tie the knot.. wow.. we all were so so happy for her.. n i was more excited.. it was more like my sis wedding than to say my best frends wedding.. she s very innocent not innocent very friendly n sweet yet matured.. the only gurl who talks sensibly (at tyms).. someone who pulls my leg big time.. someone who jus makes me feel i have a family..! i am jus talking about my best sissy frend shruthi..! a friendship that turned out to be a sissy frend..n filled life with so much fun..

A Simple Ode To A Priceless Special Friend.. :)

You feel hurt,

You want to cry out ,

 You want to be listened ,

You want to be consoled,

You feel left out ,

You are helpless..

Yea..!!!! This is something that anyone could relate them self to.. and am not that anyone out of the box.. but am very glad to have few great friends to give me the KICK lyk the one n inception.. lol.. the KICK that brings an instant smile.. the overwhlemed happiness which you longed for and all of it comes in a flash..click there it comes.. the most brigthening smiles u ever had..now this feel has no words.. in this material world where all under stress n strain.. u get one call or message when u are totally down n u feel so refreshed and cared.. looking back to the years, the moments made by you.. the smallest joys noticed.. less may be the time spent together..the more we got to know each other , a special relation that would be cherished thru'out life.. never been formal..always gave a hope that there's an unopen door jus waiting for me.. and someone who helped me prove my talents.. someone who was the best shoulder to share upon.. and made me smile even in the worst situation.. someone who could light up the place with fun and happiness.. few never realize the real friendship underlining the relationship.. someone who finds when am down without even explaining a word..a friend to b more precise a special friend who just sweeps your feet of da ground and flashes in smiles.. not all can understand wat its all about other than us..! he is my bestt buddyy.. n i don't wanna say a thanks and make it formal.. lol no matter how busy you are.. how crazy you are.. jus wanna say that i cherish your friendship a lot.. cheers to our friendship..

This is dedicated to a special friend of mine

To u, "viks"[the busy bee :)],who makes me smile more n more for no reason :)

Memory that Lasts Forever..

"Give me some sunshine,
Give me some rain,
Give me another chance,
I wanna grow up once again" 
  
Listening to the tune from 3 idiots  just reminds me of my childhood days which were just too wonderful to be admired.. life was just free from stress, work n responsibility .. the only time we used to realize how hard life was during exams and unfilled  homeworks.. but we never knew that those were to become the best moments in life.. the old cycle rides.. playing in the rain.. eating ice creams.. n the scribblings being referred as master pieces..the swing that made me go high..the slide that got me down.. got friends with whom fun never ends.. having an audience were even my silly talks were rated the best..there's always someone to clean your dirty room filled with spilled paints and clothes thrown out of the wardrobe.. the wonderful walks with sam, my dog.. running behind him, trying to give a shower to him which was bigger than me.. ended up being more messy..lol ;) made my mom run behind me for breaking her favorite glass n scoring low n hindi..n those inspiring days  which pulled out the art in me.. trying to be an all rounder..doze early get up late.. missing those days of fun and innocence.. wish i could grow again.. so enjoy your transition..! 

Most wonderful experiences of my life :)))

Well this is my first post in my blog which i have been wanting to write for the past two months.. let me tell you why i write this blog.. reason is am totally totally jobless doing nothing.. n me , being a very happy person so i want my first blog also to be filled with happy n wonderful memories.. it was the first week of June when the results of the Envisioning 2020 category of the IMAGINE CUP2010 was out.. i was all excited sitting right in front of the PC waiting for the results.. am sure students all over the world would have been sitting at the tip of the chair, bitting their nails just to see who makes it to the grand finale which was to be held in Warsaw, Poland. Bing goes my head seeing my team in the finalist page.. We were so so thrilled about the whole event.. a full sponsored euro trip :)) after some really good tiresome trips from chennai to mumbai for the polish visa we managed to get our first schengen visa stamped in our passports.. n this was the most herculean tasks in the whole trip..it was just one day before our departure that we came to know that We Are Leaving to WARSAW....!!! did all our last minute shopping.. best part was we just had six hours in mumbai to shop and prepare for the event.. We happen to meet supreeth in mumbai international airport who was also representing India for the software development..koushik, kiran , supreeth and me were smiling big and one could easily feel the happiness and excitement in the air..after a long wait in the lounge we were done with our security check and immigrations n finally boarded the Air France to Paris.. Paris was our first port of entry to the EU..Paris was so so beautiful having read about it in my french classes during school , the first sight of Paris was just too amazing.. really huge airport very crowded though..the first person who captured my attention was the blue eyed immigration officer Patrick.. very friendly n smart..the first view of Paris was filled with thunderstorms.. it was raining really heavy out there.. water was sliding over the glass ceiling of the wait lounge.. Did some small shoppings in those duty free shops.. had some salad and some coffee..We were roaming and clicking a few pics in the airport.. after the  hours wait we boarded our flight to Warsaw.. there were quite a few contestants for IMAGINE CUP in the same plane.. More than 400 students was streaming into Warsaw for the 2010 Imagine Cup finals. Dreary-eyed from long flights with their luggage in hand, teams from over 70 countries have travelled from all over the globe to attend the event. Once in Warsaw the teams arrived at the Novotel hotel where all members registered and received their Imagine Cup back-packs, including a fun t-shirt, cap, rain coat and yearbook..the most exciting aspects of the Imagine Cup was we had the opportunity to meet with peers from different cultures and share stories and compare projects (and scope out the competition!) Finalists will explore and attend activities in the Novotel, Palace of Culture, and Opera House as well as offsite trips to Warsaw’s Old Town and a local castle..then Students gathered in front of the Palace of Culture and Science yesterday to celebrate the official opening of the 2010 finals, marked with the cutting of the Imagine Cup ribbon. Wearing their matching T-shirts, teams excitedly waved their country flags and listened to inspiring speeches from Waldemar Pawlak, former prime minister of Poland, Jacek Murawski, general manager of Microsoft Poland and Jon Perera, Microsoft’s general manager of education strategy..then we gave a  big wave n hug to the  Software Design teams from Sri Lanka and Ivory Coast that, because of travel issues, were not able to be in Warsaw, Poland at the Worldwide Finals. Software Design teams from Sri Lanka and Ivory Coast that, because of travel issues, were not able to be in Warsaw, Poland at the Worldwide Finals. The ceremony included a show from the famous local folk band Zakopower, who played with a variety of instruments from guitars and drums to cellos, violins, horns, megaphones and even bagpipes! The band created an array of sounds and flavors that matched the diversity of the student audience. Lead singer, Sebastian Karpiel Bulecka, spoke to us right after the gig…took a plenty of pics then we went for our first dinner in Novotel..  n yea the entire city was so so bright thought the time would be around 4 in the evening but to my surprise it was nine o clock then only realised i was in Poland and the sunsets really late there..had a good polish food..not spicy very blank i would say.. the deserts were just too great that they melted in my tongue as i ate them.. roamed till 2 in the night.. had a long walk in the park went to the metro station.. got a sim card then finally decided to hit the couch at three.. the morning view at 6 in the morning was just too fabulous.. stayed in the 14th floor.. again got to see the city very bright and happy.. then went for breakfast met lot of people from different countries n cultures..made new friends.. my first friend was from indonesia.. :)) After a day full of amazing ideas presented by some of the brightest students from around the world, they announced the teams going on to the second round in the Software Design and Embedded Development competitions. For Software Design, we went from 68 teams to 12 and for Embedded Development, from 15 teams to 10. The caliber of entries across the board was incredibly high so, while not everyone will continue in the competition, everyone deserves a huge congratulations for making it this far..then we got a real taste of Polish culture in the town of Pultusk. Dating back to the 10^th century, the town features a medieval castle alongside the river Narew. On arrival, we were welcomed by Waldemar Malicki, the famed Polish classical pianist. He delighted the crowd with examples of well-known classical European pieces, from Chopin to Beethoven, coupled with humorous jokes and references to other well know musical tunes. After the standing ovation we were free to roam different cultural zones in the castles grounds and learn different aspect to polish life. This included:

• Jousting in traditional polish knight costumes
• Sample tradition Pierogi
• Butter making and the opportunity to taste local polish cheese
• A talk from local beekeepers giving insight into how they collect nectar
• Horseshoe and coin making from local ironmongers
• Kayaking and gondola rides up the river Narew accompanied by an accordion player

In addition to the cultural attractions, the day was an opportunity for students to get to know one another, share stories and build memories. The friendships and connections made at the Imagine Cup live on much longer than the week-long competition. We toured Warsaw’s Old Town, the historic district that lies along the bank of the Vistula River featuring medieval architecture ..then went to an Indian restaurant Namaste India to have some spicy indian food which just made us feel how much we miss home..!! at last  the grand finale was held in the Opera house.. the show began with a polka dance then a short welcome video and speech by John Perera.. the came the huge minute when the awards were started to be given out..the second runner up was the delhi team from india.. we were the first runners up and the first place went to the taiwan team which was a mix of polish and an indian.. it was such a great patriotic feel when we held the tricolor flag high up in a huge stage..We were very very happy and was jumping throughout.. and cheering the other teams.. our ADE's Mark ,Satish and Mandira from The Week were highly excited about the victory.. the entire team india was filled with happiness two out of four teams from india won.. :)) with all the adrealine levels high we had a huge bash in the the final party held at Platinum Club were all the teams were celebrating their victory and the grandeur of the event.. 

 I got to compete in a competition where my competitors from around the world becomes my family for a week and my friends for ever Imagine Cup 2010♥♥" love yea all :)