Men and Women Don't Think Alike But Let's Be Fair !

There's a famous saying that men are from mars and women are from venus. is merely a superficial conclusion when keeping in mind all the differences and yet the similarities that exist between a man and a woman. Though men and women never get along well they are meant to be together . This is where the blame game starts. Trying to decode each others mind in the same time makes things more complicated .


Well, what makes me write this is coz of my good sweet loving friends rohan and viks who were having this conversation over dinner on how complicated gurls are to be impressed. Truly speaking gurls are very simple only if you know to look beyond the complications. Its about how you break the barrier. Now lets see whats going on in his mind .Their way to deal with us ie women is to basically agree to a lot of comments and critique we make. And then they apologize to make things better.
We never really unfold their minds to see what is really inside them, and what makes them the way they are.  On the outside a lot of men seem to be very self confident, macho man carry themselves like gentlemen, demonstrate their etiquette and good manners. On the inside, they are just like everyone else, have concerns and sensitive issues. They have fears and desires, that sometimes they can not share with us because they
feel that , by opening up they may be jeopardizing their manhood. Thus, the man who holds a lot of things inside eventually becomes resentful and closed up. We always think whats going on his head now but at times guys just don't think anything at all.. its just too blank..yea the typical stereotype guy acts really cool outside but definately doesn't like it from heart.. yeah gurls do have to understand that guys just look out for fun.. what would be a guys dream? Earn big, Go to Vegas have a bash with friends. the best part is they act very intelligent and try cooking up some story and end up being caught red handed..lolz.. they just don't know to lie or hide. And not to mention their love for numbers.. they have a wonderful memory when it comes to scorecards.But i would call it selective memory coz they never good with anniversaary dates, birthday dates. They just love to be a master of all and love trying some adventure such as household work trying to show that they are helpful or they can live independently but they do messing things up more. They are very smart in explaining that there is a small line between looking and ogling which is never accpeted. They are not consistent as we think, they are super cool and funtoss to some situations when it's not their girl friend. Now the Girlfriend comes up with an issue there he goes proving how philosophical he is about life and how over caring he is towards her..! thats the typical guy possessiveness which just pops out of his big head filled with so many questions which he wanted to talk out but never did and there he gets the best option to outburst.On the whole men are supposedly responsible, smart and intelligent.
Now going to the other side of the so called complicated heads with lot of twist and turns, the love of every men – The Women. n important aspect that one has to keep in mind when trying to understand women is that a woman passes through many different stages in her life. She plays many different roles; she is a mother, a sister, a wife, a friend and a human .They are just this typical jaba jaba talkative with very long tongues who loves gossips. It's very easy to open up their minds, just a lil homework on how to gain trust and being sweet can do it. But not to mention that there are always exceptions where some serious homework is needed if you really intend to break into their heads. Another bunch of girls who just love guys being themselves and not trying to be others just for the fact to impress the girl. Most of women feel very strongly about their opinions and general overview of what life and other people behavior should be. And, most of the time they may be right, since women are given that amazing sense of intuition and righteousness.  And not to mention their love for the silly kiddish games and making people guess in the name of surprise. They also twist the entire scenario just to make the guy think complicated. They love to be pampered, consoled, loved and admired. Well satisfying a girl is like trying to count the stars in the sky. And to talk about the memory, they have such love for numbers that they are right always and remember even the slightest and the smallest information. Guys hate this part of the women brain just coz they remember whats spoken 6 to 8 months ago and the feel its inadmissible for them to pull that into the last conversation.A woman wants the men to change for her and adapt her ways; so she should at least consider his requests and thoughts. The women can make the changes, and adjust to his means for the sake of her relationship.  Unlike men, we are very receptive and adoptable to changes! Best way to console a girl when she is upset is just take her out for shopping, then later on would end up being upset for taking them out. They are such a shopoholics. They would just get the whole lot just for one reason wow it looks so cute..! woww watte color..! i dun have this design..! wat da hell its so so cheap just buy as much as you can..!90% of men would probably pay a fortune to enter in their lover’s mind and discover all her deepest secrets. What all women want in their lives though is just a sense of belonging and security. Every woman looks out for safety in her life; she wants to feel safe and independent yet she does feel the necessity to be challenged and contradicted at times too.In the mind of a woman, runs a river of words, of emotions, of sorrows, and at times a river of happiness. For all of you out there, get yourself prepared because in her mind, there is absolutely no black or white!

But we have to accept that reality is different, once we learn to live with it then things are less complicated. So just don't think too much.. ;-)