Thursday, December 15, 2011

Special Ramblings!

Well been a few weeks since i wrote something on my blog.. these few weeks turned out to be the memorable weeks of my life.. Special weeks..The whole world feels long distance realtionships don't work! I am opposite.. Sometimes you meet this complete stranger in your walk of life and all you know is his name.. and yeah i knew few more details that he stays in the US.. Our first conversation was the shortest and the lousiest we ever had..! din last even a min and the awkward silences kinda freaked me out! But yeah later on it was super amazing..long chats.. long talks.. sometimes sensible most of the times it made no sense.. All were playful, witty n crazy just like us..I never understood the concept of arranged marriage.. and I never believed in the spark or watever crazy feel my friends used to say when you meet the right guy..but yeah it does exist..!! I hardly knew anything about the guy but all i could say is he belongs to the rare species of SUPER NICE GUY! There was an amazing feel to the brand new relationship or friend..Something special was definitely in it.. He even called me a dumb crazy girl.. All i said was my intuition says You are a Super nice guy! all he could say was man next 50 or 60 or 100 years you gotta be hooked with me, better think seriously.. I just said i really like you n was ready to get hooked for life! Oops by the end of one week i have given a million nick names!Miles away from me.. All i have is skype calls and phone..I know he's the right guy for me..The Perfect one!! I wanna hold him close, I wanna put my head on his shoulder, I want his fingers holding mine, A kiss in my forehead.. Isnt it awesome i actually can picture doing all this with him. I put my head under the pillow to whisper I Love You! I so wish he's with me doing the craziest of things..those zillion I love you and miss you messages..He probablly thinks I'm stunningly insane,dumb and crazy..but all he says is that i'm just too awesome to have fallen in love with!
Sweetu I just wanna say your da most specialest person of my life Mr.SUPER NICE..! keep guessing the name ;) Being with you is going to make me fall in love with life all over again..It's awesome cherishing courtship of living in your bubble of life.. love u sweetu..

PS:1. You better take classes on how to handle a baby! Coz i am one! More surprises waiting for you sweeetu
2.Thanks Pad n Vish for putting up with your amazingly insane friend!
3.Thanks Sweetu for putting up with my nonsense.. Man you are so stuck.. you just cant escape.. lol!
4.I am so into you idiot!
5.Thanks to technology ~ keeps me connected 24x7

Monday, November 21, 2011

10 Day you challenge - Day 1 of 10

Taking the 10 day challenge was there in my mind for quite a while ;) Here I go with my Day 1 of 10 ~ Nine loves!!




1.Lovely family and fun loving friends ~ For all who have made me smile and laugh! love you guys!

2.Travel ~ Anytime , anywhere I'm in!

3.Sleep ~ I'm such a sleep queen! i can sleep for about 18hrs at stretch. Touch wood! My friends hate me for this..coz they have a tough time to wake me up

4.Food~ off-late i have become such a foodie! i love experimenting food! n yeah a strict veggie ;)

5.Shopping~ Bags, clothes, ear rings! right from street shops to designer stuff.. just cant say a no to shopping!

6.Chocolates~ My bestest friend!

7.Food stuffs ~ Pani puri to sandwiches! jelabi's to nachos.. Wow i so love good food! i don't eat much though

8.Music~ Any and everything that sets me crazy

9.SKYPE n FB n GTALK ~ Makes me feel so near to my bestest friends of life and my sweetu..I'm sure my friends n me would be the richest if at all we are getting paid for using the services lolz..!


PS: List keeps changing ;)

Monday, November 14, 2011

SWADEEKAA ~ Crazy Thailand

Hey my dear blog.. How can me not blog about the THAI trip!!! OMG!!! Well how do I start this! This is the most memorable fun trip I made till date (12th – 18th april,2011), I really don’t think this trip could replace any other one (just 4 one particular reason my best friend was there), all planned in a week’s time. I should say it was our dream trip! A 10 day trip to the land of Craziness - THAILAND!! This is one mad place to go hangout with a bunch of crazy friends. N yeah I was one among those crazy ones..! As I said I was also with a bunch of crazy people, we were late to Chennai airport. Reaching the airport late was as expected coz my bestie was to pick me up! We rushed to board the Thai airways to Swarnabhumi airport Bangkok. And bang my best friend gives a comment” Hey that chick is cute!” and I was like how about that female I think she is good for you. This is how we were whiling time in the boring Chennai airport

wait lounge. We were super excited that this is gonna be the first trip out of Chennai and the fun part of the whole thing was it was Bangkok!!! A trip abroad with friends was the least expected at that point of time. The minute we settled ourself in the plane, we were like oh my godddd we are gonna flyyyy!! Our co passengers were like guess these people are mad.. The flight landed and we were standing in the visa on arrival counter close to an hour and then got our visas by paying 1000Bhats/adult. We had made pre travel car arrangements. A corolla the most commonly used cab in BBK picked us up from the airport and dropped us at the Baiyoke Suite where we made our room reservations. The rooms were big and the view from my balcony was amazing. We were given half a day to refresh ourselves but the excitement didn’t really make us take a small nap or relax, rather we took a Tuktuk (a small auto) and went around the streets of BBK . Day one we visited few jewel galleries though we weren’t any keen in buying gold or silver or diamonds. Then we realized that its time we catch up with some authentic Thai food and went to a Thai restaurant in MBK mall, don’t really know the name of the restaurant since it was written in thai. We ordered some chicken noodles, veg soup (me being a veggie) and insisted my frend to try something interesting though am not gonna try it ;). After going thru the menu, we ordered Octopus Balls. The food was interesting and good and yeah me being a veggie the veg noodle soup I ordered, turnout to be a disaster. I so wished I was a hardcore non vegetarian. My sweet friend could so understand I was hungry got me some doughnuts in Dunkins , ice cream and grabbed some coffee. Then we got into the metro to go back to hotel, somehow managed to figure out the way back to our hotel since there was nothing in English and my bestie doesn’t know to read maps..uffo!! Yeah the Thai are so friendly and they greet you saying Swadeekaa with a smile. The best part of the trip was that we were in Thailand during their New year week SONGRAM. A festive with full of happiness and they celebrate it by pouring water on each other and wish luck for each other. The street of BBK was full of water and people playing around with water. This fun filled atmosphere made us decide to live the streets of Thailand. It was time we got wet and played in the streets of BBK. We walked like madness, ate food in the small shops and restaurants in the streets and shopped like crazy. Sat on the road side at 2 A.M and was having a crazy conversation and still couldn’t accept the fact we were in THAI all by ourselves having the best fun ever possible! There is lot of shopping malls in the city to go around not really expensive. There are a few must watch places like the Siam ocean world for kids and the wildlife safari, ocean world and the Buddhist temple is a must watch. If you are a couple and want to indulge in some romantic evening dinner, candle lights then you should go for the 3 hour cruise. A perfect get away for romance. After roaming around BBK we headed over to Pattaya by car, it takes about 2 hours. If you love adventure then you have a lotta water sport activities to indulge and have fun. The best out of our experience is the Underwater walk ~ feeding fishes, palying with them.. makes you feel like a mermaid ;) You have other sports like the scuba diving, parasailing, treks, water scooter, snorkelling etc. They take you in a speed boat to an island where water seems like blue crystals floating. The walking street at pattaya never sleeps.. lot of pubs, gogo bars, discotheques..i would say it’s a place for bachelors.. The Alcazar show which shows the thai culture is a must watch. You can indulge yourself in some spa and massages for a refreshing experience..You have a variety of spa to pick from.. Thailand is a place to have fun and loads of adventure..! My trip turned out to be awesome coz of my Bestie.. big cheers .. love u all.. hope to make more fun trips and enjoy!

Wednesday, November 2, 2011

World’s toughest job!!

Oh man… My work was pathetic! Oh sheeshh ! I hate my manager! Whatta sadistic office I work with, no holiday!!! It’s Monday, oh my god! I’m feeling blue! Reports, strategies, markets, clients, development, process flow, deployment! Oh guys give me a BREAK!!!!
Siddd!!! Wake upppp… its 12 !!! oh yeahhhh sooo bright! Heyy my laptop.. I woke up ! good morning blog! Sundays are denoted to brunches but for me every day is a Sunday no wonder I have brunch daily! Man I can say there is no one in this world satisfied! Be it working or student or bf or husband or wife or sister or brother or jobless! All those who are single want a GF/ BF! All those who are committed wants a hotter dude/ hotter chick! All those who are married wants a bachelor life! And All those who are working wants to take a break! All those in a BREAK wants to work! This is actually life!

Every day I hit for brunch, catch up some movie in afternoon and sleep back in my couch, wake up in the evening catch up with friends , have dinner with family and blog and watch movies and sleep again! The most hard part of this is when all the people in the world ask hey sid what are you doing? I’m jobless! Looking out for job! Oh you are not working?? You must be having a good time then! After listening to this a million times I broke! What the hell? Do you have any idea to be jobless and free? No so please don’t say it is cool. Whatt?? What problem you got man? No schedules to be met, no targets, no lousy managers and meetings! That's the best thing in life.. Dude try doing nothing the whole day! I mean you shouldn’t think of doing what in the evening or anything.. just let yourself followed by the tide of time n day! Man you cant! The person who does this which I mean doesn’t think anything about future or past or present is definitely The DUDE/ BABE I wanna meet! You are annoyed of working and annoyed of not working! Anything that's been done all over again and again.. gets boring and irritating..! There should always be some change to cheer up those regular moronic life!

Man this is for all those people who whines about life and the way it is! The most hardest or the toughest job in life is being VETTI ! For all those who are VETTI can definitely understand this post better!

P.S: VETTI ~ tamil slang of being jobless!

Monday, October 31, 2011

An Ode to the super nice bro :)

A lot can happen over a coffee.. ! Well I would say a lot can happen over a chocolate! Yep! That was my first conversation with him, in fact first argument! Well thanks to our common friend and yahoo and orkut and gtalk! I always found my college pretty boring types and out of the blue pops up this super nice guy! Well I would say he is super nice coz he has a super nice sister, that’s me ;)
24 days younger to me, who still calls me DEDE right from his heart! For the first time I ever felt an emotional touch when I’m called dede and trust me no one else can call me dede the way he does! He has filled the gap of 20 years so perfectly! The most decent awesome guy I ever met! Jeshuuuu.. as I call him..I am sure I’ve made him go crazy every time with my hopeless pathetic amazingly nothing talks.. Poor bro had to listen to em coz I’m his elder sis.. hehe..
What can I say about this nice guy? he's the maddy aka sid of the DCH gang..! One guy who loves to experiment his avatar! And I so remember the way I would wait see him in canteen and comment on it ;) His love for movies made him give a tribute to HEATH LEDGER! Our first face painting session ;) hehe in fact my first face painting, I have no idea what made him risk himself for it! I should say bro sis love :D an ardent rajini fan! I just can’t forget my interpretation I did comparing his pic with the thalapathi pic! I should say perfect! One person whom I can count on no matter how big the problem is or how stupid I messed up! He so knows me in and out that I just can’t defend me when he pulls my leg! And I should say thanks to my stunningly pathetic college for giving us few crazy incidents.
The most cherished incident would be the bus incident..! I don’t wanna talk about this and get caught with the cep of google! I’m sure we would be sued if at all I open my mouth about this in detail here..hehe ;) and the crazy chats online.. if at all you were paid for chatting I guess we would have been the richest :D and yeah one guy who is an epitome of patience, calmness, soft spoken, hardly found in fights or arguments.. yeah the proud owner of still having a coffee mug which is not replaced by beer mug  Man he dies for coffee..!Oops forgot to mention.. he is so tall and i can never reach his head..always i've to stand on a chair or so! and this guy keeps making fun of me for it..!
One guy who taught me wat not to do and how to handle crossroads in life! He is super sweet to hear all my mokkais right from shopping to friends to crushes to anything under the sun! Oops first person whom I actually listen to when someone advises me! One guy who has been with me in all problems and walks of life! I really don’t think there can be any better emotional punch bag I got! We get busy with time and the materialistic world, but he’s one guy who gives me surprises and always loves me forever not matter how stupid and crazy I grow! I really don’t think I can write all about him in one blog! I don’t wanna say a thanks to this super nice amazingly decent brother jeshu.. Love you loads.. yours ever crazy happy go Dede..

P.S: Thanks for the wonderful bday gift you gave me.. guess what none of us realized it yet.. including me.. so i should say a totally new bday after7 years!!! reminder I’m missing you jeshuuuuuu! Muaaahhh

Thursday, October 20, 2011

Love Unplugged!!

Well, Invariably everyone makes life complicated!Met this crazy guy who is confused 24x7! All he knows is he loves her truly madly deeply and the girl keeps confusing on commitment! I wonder why is there a fear in moving the relationship to next level once you are in a relationship! This is the time your relationship status in FB turns to COMPLICATED.Relationships can be as simple or as complicated as we want them to be. Most of them as couples except too much from one another.

GUYS:The first problem is heights of possessiveness. Whats the big deal if your GF is found talking or hanging out with her guy friends or colleagues? You have females friends whom you hangout with, talk all crap possible. This is so unfair of restricting your GF. This makes you very similar to your parents who always try to draw a line and you apparently break the line just coz it's fun. That's exactly she does!

GIRLS:Heights of expectation! How can you possible expect a guy to be 24x7 with you. There is a world outside to explore with lot more people. Don't nag those poor guys, how much pressure can they handle. They so have to keep up schedules at work,home and even in love? Distance makes heart go fonder. Give them their space of time and they would surely reciprocate the love.

GUYS:Never try to judge her friends circle!
Sometimes you have crazy relationship with friends ~ chaddy buddy, 2 A.M friends, SMS friends, Metro train friends, Movie friends, School friends, Bestest friends and yeah this list keeps going on and on. You can never understand certain things and if you don't understand just leave it than to stick on to it and worry!

GIRLS:It's the same, never judge his friends and try to control him in making or maintaining friends. Friends and him leave them alone. Never expect him to like what you like. You know he's lying then just give him the time to tell the truth and don't fight and keep nagging him on it. Trust him! They check out other girls it means they are admiring natures beauty and it doesn't mean they are going to ask her out right away.

GUYS: They always differentiate their Female Bestest friend and their GF.

GIRLS: Never try to change the guy the way you are. Accept him for the way he is. This goes even for the girls. Initially everything seems cute, nice and cuddly. But at a point of time you realize it's not just you and you feel messed controlled and try to break bonds which you cherished.

GUYS: Learn to be practical in a relationship. It's so stupid to follow all your bollywood styles of impressing.

GIRLS: Now you don't act like those Bollywood actress! Just coz he's super smart or cute or he's your friend and you don't want to hurt him accept his love. Do think practically if you wish to walk with him all through the life! If you really want to talk to him on really really stuffs! If you can put up with him and accepts his flaws! Moving the relationship to the next level takes a lot of thought process. So think and decide.

Relationships are those which are to be enjoyed together. There are no relationships without fights, cuddling and arguments. It's just that we need to give it time and mature as it grows than to fear. At the end of it all we seek is happiness, relaxation and not material things!


P.S: Learn to respect each others feelings,

Wednesday, October 19, 2011

MR.SUPER NICE

Well, this blog is just for my exceptionally sweet friends who are super nice to girls! This is for those guys who are open minded, unappreciated, Super sweet and super nice! 10 things that girls love about SUPER NICE GUYS!


1. He is always there for you no matter what happens. Even if it is 2.A.M you can call talk stupid, cry, make fun and sleep while talking.

2. He waits endlessly outside change rooms and help you pick a dress.

3. The minute you say your computer has crashed they come up and fix things right away.

4. You have a big fight with your bf and he still says don't worry everything will be fine in spite of knowing how pathetic your bf is!

5. He listens to the story of "HOW YOU MET YOUR BF" the millionth time just like the way he heard the first time.

6. He sweetly reiterates how cute,beautiful, funny, sexy, amazing you are!

7. He so understands the meaning of JUST FRIENDS!

8. He always hooks up with you and make sure that you reach home safe.

9. He hands out the TV remote in the finals of an important match!

10. He endlessly does everything just to see her SMILE!

P.S: This is for those guys who value every feeling of a girl!