My Love Karthik!

Well this blog is to my four months old relationship..! Karthik.. the most special guy in my life..He's this sweet cute smart boy next door types..Smart, Calm, Naughty, Playful, Matured, Responsible and apparently calls himself a reserved guy! He's one of the awesomest guys i ever met.. we met as strangers, we became friends, Fell in Love and we are now as One! 4 months with this so called matured guy was just to amazing.. He's one guy who can read my crazy mind so perfectly.. he's one who could bring a smile in me so instantly.. he's my best friend who listens to my ramblings patiently, A perfect 2a.m fiance who sings songs 2 me! One guy who loves shopping.. may be he likes shopping coz he's just too lazy to pick his clothes.. ;) All the small fights n arguments made us understand more! Sometimes we are so opposite in thoughts and i would be like actually Karthik!! Opposites DO ATTRACT EACH OTHER.. Physics is right!!! He would be wondering if it's really necessary she needs proofs now for theories..!

Those tiny winy romance to crazy jokes.. What not we haven't spoken about! nursery rhymes to cooking.. family to love.. best thing i liked was those small cute little cuddling after those silly fights.. he admires me da way i am and lets me be the real me!He's the First ever guy to call me responsible.. Sometimes at his peak of maturity all i can do is listen and say ok.. he bears all my crap comment in the midst of serious conversations..! handles my tantrums so well that i have decided to give him nobel prize..;) he listens to all my melodramas and still says hey jillu baby i love you.. i cant live without you..! You are the craziest girl i ever met! he's so so perfect and amazingly awesome.. Tuto, tweetu, sweetu, monu, pursha, hubby, fiance, lover boy, bubbly, humpty, chubby this list of nick names keeps going on and on.. gross comments.. naughty wits.. matured thoughts.. responsible guy is all him!
Tuto ~ The loving Fiance
Pursha ~ The responsible hubby
Humpty ~ The foodie karthik
Bubbly ~ The loving lover boy
Monu ~ The best friend..

I would say hes a perfect friend..perfect fiance.. am sure a perfect hubby too for this cute crazy little girl Jillu..

KARTHIKKKKK!!!! I LOVE YOU..!!!!

Special Ramblings!

Well been a few weeks since i wrote something on my blog.. these few weeks turned out to be the memorable weeks of my life.. Special weeks..The whole world feels long distance realtionships don't work! I am opposite.. Sometimes you meet this complete stranger in your walk of life and all you know is his name.. and yeah i knew few more details that he stays in the US.. Our first conversation was the shortest and the lousiest we ever had..! din last even a min and the awkward silences kinda freaked me out! But yeah later on it was super amazing..long chats.. long talks.. sometimes sensible most of the times it made no sense.. All were playful, witty n crazy just like us..I never understood the concept of arranged marriage.. and I never believed in the spark or watever crazy feel my friends used to say when you meet the right guy..but yeah it does exist..!! I hardly knew anything about the guy but all i could say is he belongs to the rare species of SUPER NICE GUY! There was an amazing feel to the brand new relationship or friend..Something special was definitely in it.. He even called me a dumb crazy girl.. All i said was my intuition says You are a Super nice guy! all he could say was man next 50 or 60 or 100 years you gotta be hooked with me, better think seriously.. I just said i really like you n was ready to get hooked for life! Oops by the end of one week i have given a million nick names!Miles away from me.. All i have is skype calls and phone..I know he's the right guy for me..The Perfect one!! I wanna hold him close, I wanna put my head on his shoulder, I want his fingers holding mine, A kiss in my forehead.. Isnt it awesome i actually can picture doing all this with him. I put my head under the pillow to whisper I Love You! I so wish he's with me doing the craziest of things..those zillion I love you and miss you messages..He probablly thinks I'm stunningly insane,dumb and crazy..but all he says is that i'm just too awesome to have fallen in love with!
Sweetu I just wanna say your da most specialest person of my life Mr.SUPER NICE..! keep guessing the name ;) Being with you is going to make me fall in love with life all over again..It's awesome cherishing courtship of living in your bubble of life.. love u sweetu..

PS:1. You better take classes on how to handle a baby! Coz i am one! More surprises waiting for you sweeetu
2.Thanks Pad n Vish for putting up with your amazingly insane friend!
3.Thanks Sweetu for putting up with my nonsense.. Man you are so stuck.. you just cant escape.. lol!
4.I am so into you idiot!
5.Thanks to technology ~ keeps me connected 24x7

Love Unplugged!!

Well, Invariably everyone makes life complicated!Met this crazy guy who is confused 24x7! All he knows is he loves her truly madly deeply and the girl keeps confusing on commitment! I wonder why is there a fear in moving the relationship to next level once you are in a relationship! This is the time your relationship status in FB turns to COMPLICATED.Relationships can be as simple or as complicated as we want them to be. Most of them as couples except too much from one another.

GUYS:The first problem is heights of possessiveness. Whats the big deal if your GF is found talking or hanging out with her guy friends or colleagues? You have females friends whom you hangout with, talk all crap possible. This is so unfair of restricting your GF. This makes you very similar to your parents who always try to draw a line and you apparently break the line just coz it's fun. That's exactly she does!

GIRLS:Heights of expectation! How can you possible expect a guy to be 24x7 with you. There is a world outside to explore with lot more people. Don't nag those poor guys, how much pressure can they handle. They so have to keep up schedules at work,home and even in love? Distance makes heart go fonder. Give them their space of time and they would surely reciprocate the love.

GUYS:Never try to judge her friends circle!

Sometimes you have crazy relationship with friends ~ chaddy buddy, 2 A.M friends, SMS friends, Metro train friends, Movie friends, School friends, Bestest friends and yeah this list keeps going on and on. You can never understand certain things and if you don't understand just leave it than to stick on to it and worry!

GIRLS:It's the same, never judge his friends and try to control him in making or maintaining friends. Friends and him leave them alone. Never expect him to like what you like. You know he's lying then just give him the time to tell the truth and don't fight and keep nagging him on it. Trust him! They check out other girls it means they are admiring natures beauty and it doesn't mean they are going to ask her out right away.

GUYS: They always differentiate their Female Bestest friend and their GF.

GIRLS: Never try to change the guy the way you are. Accept him for the way he is. This goes even for the girls. Initially everything seems cute, nice and cuddly. But at a point of time you realize it's not just you and you feel messed controlled and try to break bonds which you cherished.

GUYS: Learn to be practical in a relationship. It's so stupid to follow all your bollywood styles of impressing.

GIRLS: Now you don't act like those Bollywood actress! Just coz he's super smart or cute or he's your friend and you don't want to hurt him accept his love. Do think practically if you wish to walk with him all through the life! If you really want to talk to him on really really stuffs! If you can put up with him and accepts his flaws! Moving the relationship to the next level takes a lot of thought process. So think and decide.

Relationships are those which are to be enjoyed together. There are no relationships without fights, cuddling and arguments. It's just that we need to give it time and mature as it grows than to fear. At the end of it all we seek is happiness, relaxation and not material things!


P.S: Learn to respect each others feelings,

Fifiee & Me!

Sometimes you watch few movies and you feel like you are one among them! Well I was watching this English movie since I was bored and wasn’t sleepy. A movie which reminded me of my love! A relationship which lasted close to a year! The most memorable day of my life, 14th April,2009. She was first introduced at my home. Bought her in my small handbag!

My grandma first didn’t find her convincing but as days passed by she apparently feel for her cuteness. She was always smart and naughty which made us love her more. The entire family loved her for the way she was! She just proved to be incorrigible. This kinda of reminded my grandma of having babies at home where you keep all the glassware in the top. That’s exactly we did! She howls, knocks tables over, jumps on everyone, howls, chews up furniture and is a menace. She loves chewing her leash I wonder if it was tastier than pedigree! Well She used to be fed every 3 hours which means she needs to be taken for a walk every now and then for her pee pee poo poo! My friend who gifted me Fifiee was super excited and would sneak out of college just to spend quality time with her.

Well Fifiee was apparently trained by me, so she was naughty witty and smart! She used to chase him down and take the hell out of him until he get her the bone! Her boisterous attitude used to drive us crazy. We loved every bit of her! Her in built alarm for food! She had this crazy habit when it comes to eating. Her vet was like feed her this medicine so that she has a good appetite. Surprisingly she used to hog lot without them! She loves being a mess! I so remember that one day we locked her back home to attend some family function, and I found my entire study room filled with torn papers, broken furniture and my bean bag all torn up! I was just about to yell at her and all I could do is cuddle her up for that lovely affectionate jump,kisses and licks she gave me! Kati pudi vaithiyam! It did work on me! Days passes I saw her grew! But she never stopped her mad maniac jumps. She can never be a well mannered pup! And i love that! She was always jealous of my laptop and would nudge my elbow or stare at me constantly to get me to give her attention while I am sitting at my desk. Her only pass time was to run behind a crazy lizard, bark at the crows in the backyard and make the family go crazy playing silly catching games! Dogs make you feel what life is all about! They are the best companions! Then it was time to bid a bye..! She was back to her new home. Miss all those crazy ball games!