Special Ramblings!

Well been a few weeks since i wrote something on my blog.. these few weeks turned out to be the memorable weeks of my life.. Special weeks..The whole world feels long distance realtionships don't work! I am opposite.. Sometimes you meet this complete stranger in your walk of life and all you know is his name.. and yeah i knew few more details that he stays in the US.. Our first conversation was the shortest and the lousiest we ever had..! din last even a min and the awkward silences kinda freaked me out! But yeah later on it was super amazing..long chats.. long talks.. sometimes sensible most of the times it made no sense.. All were playful, witty n crazy just like us..I never understood the concept of arranged marriage.. and I never believed in the spark or watever crazy feel my friends used to say when you meet the right guy..but yeah it does exist..!! I hardly knew anything about the guy but all i could say is he belongs to the rare species of SUPER NICE GUY! There was an amazing feel to the brand new relationship or friend..Something special was definitely in it.. He even called me a dumb crazy girl.. All i said was my intuition says You are a Super nice guy! all he could say was man next 50 or 60 or 100 years you gotta be hooked with me, better think seriously.. I just said i really like you n was ready to get hooked for life! Oops by the end of one week i have given a million nick names!Miles away from me.. All i have is skype calls and phone..I know he's the right guy for me..The Perfect one!! I wanna hold him close, I wanna put my head on his shoulder, I want his fingers holding mine, A kiss in my forehead.. Isnt it awesome i actually can picture doing all this with him. I put my head under the pillow to whisper I Love You! I so wish he's with me doing the craziest of things..those zillion I love you and miss you messages..He probablly thinks I'm stunningly insane,dumb and crazy..but all he says is that i'm just too awesome to have fallen in love with!
Sweetu I just wanna say your da most specialest person of my life Mr.SUPER NICE..! keep guessing the name ;) Being with you is going to make me fall in love with life all over again..It's awesome cherishing courtship of living in your bubble of life.. love u sweetu..

PS:1. You better take classes on how to handle a baby! Coz i am one! More surprises waiting for you sweeetu
2.Thanks Pad n Vish for putting up with your amazingly insane friend!
3.Thanks Sweetu for putting up with my nonsense.. Man you are so stuck.. you just cant escape.. lol!
4.I am so into you idiot!
5.Thanks to technology ~ keeps me connected 24x7

An Ode to the super nice bro :)

A lot can happen over a coffee.. ! Well I would say a lot can happen over a chocolate! Yep! That was my first conversation with him, in fact first argument! Well thanks to our common friend and yahoo and orkut and gtalk! I always found my college pretty boring types and out of the blue pops up this super nice guy! Well I would say he is super nice coz he has a super nice sister, that’s me ;)
24 days younger to me, who still calls me DEDE right from his heart! For the first time I ever felt an emotional touch when I’m called dede and trust me no one else can call me dede the way he does! He has filled the gap of 20 years so perfectly! The most decent awesome guy I ever met! Jeshuuuu.. as I call him..I am sure I’ve made him go crazy every time with my hopeless pathetic amazingly nothing talks.. Poor bro had to listen to em coz I’m his elder sis.. hehe..
What can I say about this nice guy? he's the maddy aka sid of the DCH gang..! One guy who loves to experiment his avatar! And I so remember the way I would wait see him in canteen and comment on it ;) His love for movies made him give a tribute to HEATH LEDGER! Our first face painting session ;) hehe in fact my first face painting, I have no idea what made him risk himself for it! I should say bro sis love :D an ardent rajini fan! I just can’t forget my interpretation I did comparing his pic with the thalapathi pic! I should say perfect! One person whom I can count on no matter how big the problem is or how stupid I messed up! He so knows me in and out that I just can’t defend me when he pulls my leg! And I should say thanks to my stunningly pathetic college for giving us few crazy incidents.

The most cherished incident would be the bus incident..! I don’t wanna talk about this and get caught with the cep of google! I’m sure we would be sued if at all I open my mouth about this in detail here..hehe ;) and the crazy chats online.. if at all you were paid for chatting I guess we would have been the richest :D and yeah one guy who is an epitome of patience, calmness, soft spoken, hardly found in fights or arguments.. yeah the proud owner of still having a coffee mug which is not replaced by beer mug  Man he dies for coffee..!Oops forgot to mention.. he is so tall and i can never reach his head..always i've to stand on a chair or so! and this guy keeps making fun of me for it..!
One guy who taught me wat not to do and how to handle crossroads in life! He is super sweet to hear all my mokkais right from shopping to friends to crushes to anything under the sun! Oops first person whom I actually listen to when someone advises me! One guy who has been with me in all problems and walks of life! I really don’t think there can be any better emotional punch bag I got! We get busy with time and the materialistic world, but he’s one guy who gives me surprises and always loves me forever not matter how stupid and crazy I grow! I really don’t think I can write all about him in one blog! I don’t wanna say a thanks to this super nice amazingly decent brother jeshu.. Love you loads.. yours ever crazy happy go Dede..

P.S: Thanks for the wonderful bday gift you gave me.. guess what none of us realized it yet.. including me.. so i should say a totally new bday after7 years!!! reminder I’m missing you jeshuuuuuu! Muaaahhh

Love Unplugged!!

Well, Invariably everyone makes life complicated!Met this crazy guy who is confused 24x7! All he knows is he loves her truly madly deeply and the girl keeps confusing on commitment! I wonder why is there a fear in moving the relationship to next level once you are in a relationship! This is the time your relationship status in FB turns to COMPLICATED.Relationships can be as simple or as complicated as we want them to be. Most of them as couples except too much from one another.

GUYS:The first problem is heights of possessiveness. Whats the big deal if your GF is found talking or hanging out with her guy friends or colleagues? You have females friends whom you hangout with, talk all crap possible. This is so unfair of restricting your GF. This makes you very similar to your parents who always try to draw a line and you apparently break the line just coz it's fun. That's exactly she does!

GIRLS:Heights of expectation! How can you possible expect a guy to be 24x7 with you. There is a world outside to explore with lot more people. Don't nag those poor guys, how much pressure can they handle. They so have to keep up schedules at work,home and even in love? Distance makes heart go fonder. Give them their space of time and they would surely reciprocate the love.

GUYS:Never try to judge her friends circle!

Sometimes you have crazy relationship with friends ~ chaddy buddy, 2 A.M friends, SMS friends, Metro train friends, Movie friends, School friends, Bestest friends and yeah this list keeps going on and on. You can never understand certain things and if you don't understand just leave it than to stick on to it and worry!

GIRLS:It's the same, never judge his friends and try to control him in making or maintaining friends. Friends and him leave them alone. Never expect him to like what you like. You know he's lying then just give him the time to tell the truth and don't fight and keep nagging him on it. Trust him! They check out other girls it means they are admiring natures beauty and it doesn't mean they are going to ask her out right away.

GUYS: They always differentiate their Female Bestest friend and their GF.

GIRLS: Never try to change the guy the way you are. Accept him for the way he is. This goes even for the girls. Initially everything seems cute, nice and cuddly. But at a point of time you realize it's not just you and you feel messed controlled and try to break bonds which you cherished.

GUYS: Learn to be practical in a relationship. It's so stupid to follow all your bollywood styles of impressing.

GIRLS: Now you don't act like those Bollywood actress! Just coz he's super smart or cute or he's your friend and you don't want to hurt him accept his love. Do think practically if you wish to walk with him all through the life! If you really want to talk to him on really really stuffs! If you can put up with him and accepts his flaws! Moving the relationship to the next level takes a lot of thought process. So think and decide.

Relationships are those which are to be enjoyed together. There are no relationships without fights, cuddling and arguments. It's just that we need to give it time and mature as it grows than to fear. At the end of it all we seek is happiness, relaxation and not material things!


P.S: Learn to respect each others feelings,

MR.SUPER NICE

Well, this blog is just for my exceptionally sweet friends who are super nice to girls! This is for those guys who are open minded, unappreciated, Super sweet and super nice! 10 things that girls love about SUPER NICE GUYS!

1. He is always there for you no matter what happens. Even if it is 2.A.M you can call talk stupid, cry, make fun and sleep while talking.

2. He waits endlessly outside change rooms and help you pick a dress.

3. The minute you say your computer has crashed they come up and fix things right away.

4. You have a big fight with your bf and he still says don't worry everything will be fine in spite of knowing how pathetic your bf is!

5. He listens to the story of "HOW YOU MET YOUR BF" the millionth time just like the way he heard the first time.

6. He sweetly reiterates how cute,beautiful, funny, sexy, amazing you are!

7. He so understands the meaning of JUST FRIENDS!

8. He always hooks up with you and make sure that you reach home safe.

9. He hands out the TV remote in the finals of an important match!

10. He endlessly does everything just to see her SMILE!

P.S: This is for those guys who value every feeling of a girl!

It's a boy girl thing!

I wonder why guys are concern about what girls really mean or want? Answer: They so need girls in their life! Guys always complain on girls for what they are! The worst is they try to decode girl’s dictionary. We accept a fine is never a FINE! A yes is never a Yes! 5 minutes=an hour! Nothing= Everything! Your wish= If at all you do it, you are so dead! But that’s how it works in a guy’s dictionary as well.

What Guys really mean!!!
~ Oh dear I will explain everything to you in detail!
Really means “What do I explain? I’m clueless! or it can even be Crap I am caught!”
~ I think you need to take a break
Really means “I am watching the match. Can you please stop making noises?”
~Kiss and Hug!
Really means “Don’t ask a word more”
~ How can I forget? We are going for dinner sweety! It’s a surprise!
Really means “ Oops I forgot!”
~I can’t find it
Really means “My outstretched hands can’t reach them”
~I help you at home!
Really means “You clean and I mess up”
~I have an important meeting with my client
Really means” It’s BEER time!”
~I am listening to you sweety!Found looking somewhere else
Really means” Oh man the girl in the next table is super hot! I am dating the wrong one!”
~That’s really sweet of you
Really means” Now don’t come in my way!”
~You are so stunning! I so wanna keep looking at you!
Really means” I am HUNGRY! I WANT FOOD and NOT YOU”
~ Not a nice color! Doesn’t suit you!
Really means”Oh man! Don’t tell me you are going to buy another one!”
~Will you marry me?
Really means”There is no milk, Shirts not pressed, I am tired of hotel food!”
P.S: Facts to be accepted
1. Guys can’t live without girls!
2. Girls love them for their stupidity!
3. Guys don’t know to lie!
4. Girls are born CIAs!
5. Girls love shopping and cosmetics!
6. Guys spend more time in front of the mirror to set their hair!
7. Girls gossip!
8. Guy’s just talk about others life!
9. Girls have better memory!
10. Guys have selective memory!

Dedicated to all boys who whine about What girls Really MEAN/ WANT??

What's a Perfect Dream Relationship

Have you ever wondered how most of us dream about the same things? We might be different. We might argue a lot. We might fight and try to prove our point of view. But in the end of the day when we  go to bed and are one on one with our thoughts and dreams and desires we want the only one thing - admit it or deny it - we want to be loved. And we want to be happy. And somehow one does not go without another. 

All of us dream of this someone who is perfect..we always feel that the other person's life is more happier and fun than yours.. n We take time to trust someone unconditionally. it's  about meeting  that one person who can read their mind, answer their questions before these questions are actually being asked. it's about meeting that person who can bring excitement, happiness, joy in their life. it's about meeting that special someone who can literally take their breath away just by being there. We have not. But we know we will. We hope, we dream and while we are lonely at this very moment we know very well that it is not going this way forever. Or so we hope.

What do we love to dream.. a dream just to make us  realize  how lucky they are to have something that beautiful in their life. Having someone who can make an ordinary moment seem magical; who can bring out the best in them and make them want to be a better person. Having someone who is their best friend; the person who will drop everything to be with them at any time of the day no matter what the circumstances, when it is needed. Having someone who can make them  smile like no one else can. the fact that a good relationship doesn’t just happen. Couples who stay together for years aren’t just lucky. It requires both people to actively care for and work on the relationship.

1. Accept the shortcomings.

2. Admit you are wrong

3. Always talk about your problems

4. Do not take everything personally

5. Be independently happy

6. Do not let anyone affect your relationship

7. Give them time and space

8. Show them they are your priority

9. Be loyal, be truthful, be committed

10.

Say “I love you”